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n relationships girls can transform into psycho bitches, but often guys make them that way (even if they do so unintentionally).

Why is this?

Primarily because guys say things but don’t mean them OR they say something no realizing the impact their comments have on their significant other..

So… he told you he thinks the you two would have cute kids OR that he has ever felt this way about a girl before? And now you’re all jittery, happy and ‘in love’?

STOP RIGHT THERE!

Do yourself a favour. Slow down and don’t take this to heart. Shrug it off as flatteryor attribute it to his adorable ‘charming’ side. Don’t allow how you feel about the nature of a relationship to be fully altered by a few ‘sweet’ lines that a guy pulls on you. Guys can say something one day and wake up in the morning, meet someone new, and never look back. Girls, however, tend to be much morecomplex and become much more ‘emotionally invested’ in relationships. It takes the average girl much longer to move on when a relationship does than it takes the average man.

So why exactly is this?

I promise you, that if any guy can flatter you enough to the point of where he makes you think that ‘you are the one’ that you too can and will come to a similar mentality that perhaps he ‘is the one’ also. This is one of the biggest crimes girls commit in relationships and perhaps one of he most dangerous. The second; you build up a potential future in your head with this guy and you believe that he is the only one for you.. you will dwell on this image and feed off it. Even if your relationship begins to take some rough turns, you will fight for that ‘imagined future’ in your head. IF you convince yourself that someone is ‘the one’ for you then you have to internally cut off all other possibilities at a future with someone else. You have convinced yourself that the person you are with is it and no one else could ever come close. This is why unhealthy relationships drag on.

That ‘plenty of fish in the sea’ thing? How many girls actually embrace that mentality? Not many. In the beginning, when dating is frivolous and fun, maybe so. But once a relationship has gotten to the point where you can begin to call him ‘the one’ or see an established future complete with three kids, two dogs and a sea-side mansion, you are doomed.

Do not let yourself get to this point. Do not fight to keep a struggling or abusive relationship alive on these grounds. Tell yourself, outloud if you must, that ‘there is no such thing as the one’. And that love can be found in countless places. While each individual may have a unique irreplaceable personality, the positions that they once filled and have left vacant in your life are NOT irreplaceable! You may never have the same person again, but I assure you that you can feel the same way about a different person. All you have to do is ALLOW yourself to. The feeling of love, after all, is just a chemical reaction in the brain that does not naturally discriminate between individuals.

‘Sometimes you have to be a bitch to make your way in this life’

No, I’m not talking about being a bitch to everyone all the time. If I was, I wouldn’t waste my time; instead I’d tell you to spend a day at Siena where you’d learn everything you needed to know. I’m talking about only being a bitch when no other means will equal the desired outcome.

Basically, women have been taught to bare the burdens of the world without even batting a perfectly curled and tinted eyelash. The ‘seen and not heard’ mentality was once a standard not just for children. Then came Susan B Anthony, she fought long and hard to give women a voice, but the stigma that women should be polite and dainty little flowers was and still is in affect.

I personally have fought long and hard to find my voice, and when what I’m saying isn’t liked or the volume gets too loud, I find myself being labelled a bitch. Well, guess what..? I don’t give a fuck whether you like me or not. I’m going to tell it how it is and I won’t change who I am, for anyone.

I’m a firm believer that most, not all, women are smarter than anyone gives us credit for, and we definitely fight dirtier than anyone else. If men have a problem with each other they fight it out, throw a few punches, and an hour later they’re best mates. Women, on the other hand, will drag their nemesis through hell and back, then tarnish every last bit of their reputation. (I don’t care who you are, if you have tits and a set of ovaries you are guilty of having done this.) Women are sizing each other up all the time. We pick out the weak ones, identify their insecurities and then we do everything in our power to destroy them and their self-esteem.

So if you want to be taken seriously, unleash your inner bitch. Who cares if what you say isn’t taken well? I can guarantee it’ll earn you respect.

**For this blog, and this blog only, DJ’s will also fall under the category of ‘rockstars’

‘Music is the language of love. A man who plays music is already your lover even before you ever meet’

Most women, if not all, have the desire to fuck a rockstar. This includes the extremely moral, daddy’s little girl. In fact, I am quite certain that if it wasn’t for the fear of STI’s, most women would fulfill their urge to fuck every rockstar that could make them swoon without a second thought. (This is not to say that all rockstars have STI’s, but rather, it is to point out that many women fear they do). Some women don’t vocalize this, some will deny it, but at the end of the day, if they were given the opportunity to fuck any of the on-stage talent after a particularly unbelievably amazing rock concert, or night at their favourite club, they probably wouldn’t hesitate.

So what makes rockstars so appealing? Is it money? Fame?
That might be a small part, but Donald Trump has more money AND fame than most rockstars and you don’t see the ladies flocking after him, flashing their tits, and chanting his name after an especially powerful episode of ‘The Apprentice’.

So what is it that separates a rockstar from both, your everyday guy as well as a typical wealthy, famous celebrity then? What makes him that much more appealing to females? Is it because rockstars have a ‘bad boy’ image?

Hmmm…this could definitely be apart of it as well. But then again, your everyday thug on the street who is covered in prison tattoos, beats his ‘baby’s-mama’, and sells crack most definitely qualifies as a ‘bad boy’ and you don’t see beautiful women who look like Miranda Kerr, Jennifer Hawkins and Adriana Lima hanging from his arms.

So if it’s not money, fame, or a ‘bad boy’ image, why do all types of girls (from good girls to porn stars) fall for rockstars?

PASSION! It’s al about PASSION.

Rockstars are emotionally expressive and passionate. It doesn’t matter what music they play, if they are passionate while doing it that is what will make them hot. Music is an outlet of emotions and self-expression. If a rockstar is capable of evoking deep feelings in his female audience, he is capable of stealing their hearts. And we all know that once you steal a girl’s heart, the likelihood that she will fuck you is 9-times-out-of-10 guaranteed. After all, music is capable of evoking some of the strongest internal emotions and females are much more likely to sleep with someone who they feel they have an emotional connection with. Truly, if there was ever a time for a female to drop her pants for a complete stranger, a rockstar it is.

Sometimes it’s as simple as the music itself. A rockstar doesn’t have to be the guy seducing the ladies behind the microphone or decks to get a heap of ass. If he is up there and he loves whatever he’s doing and it shows, the chicks are going to love him. So as long as they are passionately into the music they make, rockstars DO NOT have to conform to the typical ‘standard of male beauty’ to be incredibly hot and get the ladies.

Personally, I would argue that; while a girl might find your average Calvin Klein or D&G model attractive. He is not the type of guy that is going make her estrogen levels shoot through the roof and her clothes fly off in lustful bliss.

It is the guy covered in tatts, who has an intense passion for what he does, that is going to push her hormones to lethal levels. What it basically boils down to is just that. PASSION IS HOT!

I don’t think I have ever been to a single concert where the musicians did not look like they were having the time of their lives performing on stage. And honestly, a girl is going to be much more likely to be thinking about SEX if she sees a guy rocking and sweating his heart out, than if she sees a male model simply standing there, posed like a polished mannequin. As long as there are rockstars, those polished male models and the rest of all men on this planet, better hold onto their wives and girlfriends because there will always be the possibility that their lovers will stray if given the opportunity to have a night of steamy erotic sex with the first rockstar that looks at them.